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Daz

I have been subject of road rage many times. it not very nice.

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DensityDuck

It's easy to understand; "road rage" comes from the same place as an internet flamewar. You're interacting with other humans, but in a very limited and anonymizing way. We're used to having all our interactions be personal, with body-language cues and immediate responses to our statements--and the (typically unstated) threat of immediate physical violence to keep our egos in check. In personal contact, when Joe says something stupid he immediately recognizes that he's said something stupid because of our reactions. When Joe is driving and he cuts someone off, there's no way for him to know it--indeed, he may well believe that he didn't do anything wrong at all (he was only merging, right?)

And when someone ignores the reactions of others, we say that they're being rude--and we assume that they're aware of this and making a conscious decision to do it, because who would continue to act like an asshole? So, when we see drivers do things we consider rude, we can't help but be angry about it, since our social training tells us that rudeness is intentional.

And when you're by yourself, it's easy to fall into solipsism--which means that they aren't just being thoughtlessly rude, they're being rude to you specifically.

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